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The Key to Happiness. Maybe?
I have been thinking today. Should we really expect anything from anyone? People live and die trying to live up other peoples expectations. You can never please everyone. And by chance you do live up to the expectations of the person you wish, You will most likely be unhappy and force your expectations and dreams on someone else. Is it not enough to breathe and feed yourself? Some people can not do that. I think that all of these expectations are only harming our lives. Do what you want to do. You have one life and will not get a second chance. Live your own life. If you doing your own thing displeases other people than maybe they should look at their own lives ans see if they are truly happy.
I think letting go of these expectations is the key to happiness.
Hey on another note think about this:
If you fail at something its not really a big deal. Its life. Move on. There are so many other great possibilities.
Comments
On Sat, Oct 22, 2011 at 11:53 AM, kittycat said:
agreed.
On Sat, Oct 15, 2011 at 11:10 AM, toxicangeldust said:
I definitely feel not livign up to expectations. Ive been trying to live up to a guys expectations for 2 years now. All its gotten me is a broken heart, a couple of bruises (from kicking myself in the face for even trying), and a broken ipod :(
On Wed, Oct 5, 2011 at 8:11 PM, VeganCakes said:
Oh, And hug a bunch of people.
On Wed, Oct 5, 2011 at 8:09 PM, byrone said:
sigh.... this blog should come with a hug at the end. i like what you're saying, i wish it was like something i could just put in me, and then i would start feeling and living that way. "changing".....
On Mon, Aug 15, 2011 at 11:05 AM, SKANKTANK said:
deep blog talking for real
On Wed, Oct 21, 2009 at 1:14 AM, Crossroads Music said:
Your right on on living life to the fullest. Everything one does in this life is a learning experience that we just need to recognize, learn from, say our blessings, and continue to the next events that are our lives. We are the only ones that truly have to live with ourselves, all our issues, all our quarks, all our insecurities. If one can not be comfortable within ones own skin how should one live with other fleshies (humans) around us?
Oh, the vegetarian thing, I did that for 2 years many many moons ago. I have to say that was the healthiest I ever felt.
On Mon, Oct 12, 2009 at 4:13 AM, m.sparks said:
correct, it's all a subjective experience.
you create yourself, for yourself every single day.
and all really knowing anyone is, is projecting yourself onto them.
On Sun, Oct 11, 2009 at 1:12 PM, Half Holiday said:
(This might be a stretch) I realized that after I became a vegetarian 2 years ago that I would think more and more about things like this and I really opened up as a person and started to grow more afterward. Perhaps the pre-key to happiness is actually vegetarianism/veganism! I think that everyone who reads this blog should attempt to go vegetarian/vegan for a while (hopefully forever) and see if this philosophy sets in and starts to work!
On Sat, Sep 26, 2009 at 12:43 PM, kris said:
Very well said. I agree that you should live for yourself and what makes you happy. In my experience, trying to make someone else happy at the expense of your own results in everyone being unhappy anyway.